“Why is this special to you?”
“How do you know when your friends are sad?”
Asking children open-ended questions helps them to think critically and expand their vocabulary. It also builds their confidence, aiding their personal, emotional and social development.
In these Confident Talkers cards, I’ve put together 48 such questions to engage and stimulate conversation with children from two to seven years.
Each card contains a thought-provoking question that can be adapted to any number of situations – inside or out and about, playing quietly, on the go, in the car or at the dinner table. You can use different scenarios and objects to set the scene, such as using something the child has created, describing what their lunch tastes like or discuss how they feel about a special event, such as their birthday or other celebration.
By encouraging conversation children learn new words and concepts, develop active listening skills, learn to problem solve and make connections, and most […]
On a recent holiday, whilst walking to the beach there was a mirror placed in the bend of the road so that traffic and pedestrians could clearly see others coming in the opposite direction.
I observed a child of about three standing and pulling faces in this mirror and striking different poses. Her parents allowed her to do this and I was smiling!
Good for her, I thought, as she’s building a positive sense of self and thinking about how she fits into the world.
It’s essential that educators within Early Years support children to have a sense of self and to have a positive view of themselves. Many of the insecurities that adults have can, at times, stem from how they saw themselves within their formative years and the conscious and unconscious messages from the adults around them.
Reflective thoughts for practice:
How can the key person support children effectively to have a sense […]
Listening to others is indeed a unique skill and it is extremely important that educators are able to listen to children effectively to support their needs.
In fact the United Nations Rights of the Child states: “A child’s opinion should be taken into account on anything that affects them.” And “Children should have information disseminated in a way that enables them to make choices and decisions. “
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Like most of the nation, I have been glued to watching Sir David Attenborough’s new documentary titled ‘Africa,’ which is on BBC1 at 9:00pm on Wednesdays.
I am fascinated by the filming and the profound images of nature which in part, to the human eye, seem very cruel. David’s narrative during the documentary is balanced throughout and thought provoking.
During a recent episode they showed a herd of elephants walking through Kenya, desperately seeking food as a result of the recent drought.
The most heart pulling clip for me was when the baby elephant could no longer go on, as she was too exhausted and weak. Her mother, rather than continue with the other herd of elephants, stayed with her and tried to encourage her; stroking and rubbing her calf – demonstrating an instinctive mother- to- baby bond.
Her mother remained with her until the calf passed away and one could clearly […]
I’m so happy to have my friend and colleague, Diana Suskind, guest blogging for me. Diana is an international early childhood consultant and artist who brings her creative spirit to support children with their personal, emotional and social development.
Diana has shared her passion working overseas with colleagues and children, teaching for many years as an associate professor at Fitchburg State University, Boston, Massuchusetts, United States of America.
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“I guess we can’t be a little rock but rocks, especially stones, can inspire us to play with them for they are simply a natural resource. They do appeal to children and adults alike in any country or culture. No two stones are the same. They have their own shape, their own weight, color and markings. They are one of a kind just like each of us. Different stones, […]
I am very excited to have Sue Gascoyne as my guest blogger. I whole heartedly promote sensory play and multi-sensory learning within early years and education as I believe sensory play impacts positively on children’s learning and development.
Sue Gascoyne is an educational consultant, early years researcher, trainer and author. She runs workshops and speaks nationally and internationally, drawing upon the research which she has instigated to further understanding of the benefits of sensory-rich object play. This is also reflected in her award winning training – Sue was named Nursery World’s ‘Trainer of the Year’ in 2009 for her contribution to the early years sector. Her accomplished books, Sensory Play, 2011 (Practical Pre-School) and Treasure Baskets and Beyond – Realising the benefits of sensory rich play, 2012 (Open University Press) successfully convey both the theory and practical application of sensory play. Sue is the founder of Play to Z Ltd, specialist providers of award-winning sensory […]